4 personalities that don’t do communication well
Tuesday, January 21, 2020
Everyone communicates something; not everyone communicates well. It takes a lot of control and skill to communicate effectively.
So, if you’re hiring someone for your church, or you have a volunteer helping you with communication, make sure they have the right skills but really make sure they have the right personality for it.
There’s nothing worse than someone in a position where they’re not the right person for the task. If that’s you, you’ll struggle with your personal life, won’t sleep, and won’t feel like you fit your position. If it’s someone you’ve hired (or manage), you’ll wonder why they don’t delight in their job, why they feel defeated, and ultimately why the work just isn’t getting done properly.
Here are four personalities to avoid in the communication role:
Where communication is all about them, not the audience. When someone (leader or communication person) uses communication to promote themselves as the hero in the story, it will almost always fail. A narcissist won’t feel successful because the audience will feel disconnected.
INSTEAD: seek someone who loves your audience and wants to understand the audience’s needs and goals. They’ll want to help the audience solve their concerns and achieve the goals. They’ll almost effortlessly want to make the audience feel loved. Your communication will work smoothly when everyone understands effective communication rises and falls on loving the audience.
2. Faint of Heart
Communication is difficult. If someone tackles it weakly, it will be ineffective and will be mostly ignored. Since there are so many communication channels, a ton of messages are pushed toward our audiences. To help manage this overwhelming wave of messaging, people have developed the ability to quickly ignore what isn’t relevant because we can’t take everything in. We overlook weaker messaging.
INSTEAD: seek someone who is a leader that rises to a challenge, understands the importance of measuring success and failure, and ultimately is a problem solver who wants to tackle the most difficult challenges. They learn from their failures by steadily improving in their ever-changing field.
Communication requires creativity. If someone does the same thing over and over again, they’ll eventually become boring. If they simply copy themselves or another church; no matter how unique the idea, they’ll soon become ignored, since people seek fresh new ideas and communication. This is why communication is so difficult!
INSTEAD: seek someone who can look at all the options and choose to push the limits with something that feels unique and creative.
Communicators have often become known as the “Minister of No” since they wrestle with constantly directing the ministries of the church away from communicating or designing inconsistently with the church’s standard (most people end up doing what’s right in their own eyes). Many churches require the communication person to shut down these rogue people who are simply trying to reach more people, but are doing it in a way that doesn’t feel like the church brand.
INSTEAD: seek someone who has a joyful personality, a heart of a teacher, and someone who enjoys encouraging people. Why? Because they’ll regularly have to encourage people to do it a better way. And it’s best for the church to have it done in a joyful teaching manner.
- 8 exercises for strengthening your business writing
- Writing the letter that gets you more referrals
- 101 bad business buzzwords — and why you should avoid them
- 9 steps to more concise business writing
- Impressive new smartphone apps in health and medicine
- Privacy tips to help teachers avoid a social media scandal
- How to stand out in your next meeting
- Is your mobile workforce exposing you to unseen risks?
- Chief Elusive Officer: 21% of non-managers have never met their CEO
- How to plan for recovery
- Are combat-accurate groups good enough? Probably not
- How COVID-19 affects the school lunch program
- Reform paves path for emergency mass prisoner release
See your work in future editions
Your content, Your Expertise,
Your Industry Needs YOUR Expert Voice & We've got the platform you needFind Out How